Found out my GF is on online dating website
 

I I guess today my girlfriend got a message on facebook from some kid from my town saying hey whatsup I know you on plentyoffish.com (dating website). SUPPOSEDLY he found her on facebook after "talking to her" on plentyoffish. She was like wtf thats not really me blabla must be fake he was like haha you sure? Then he began to tell her she should be a ring girl for a UFC fight because his job is to recruit ring girls... So this kid def seems sort of suspect to the whole creation of the profile. However they were not friends, and some of her facebook pics are on the website. So since her profile is private that means it must be someone in her friends that did it???? WTF its sketchy and I'm trying to get to the bottom of it, going to the police station tomorrow.

All I can say is I fucking hate technology and I fucking hate that my girlfriend has like 1500 friends on facebook and surprised about this... DUHH!!!

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I'm just gonna say i hope you get to the bottom of this. Hope the answer is a good one and not bad.

Yeah for now I messaged the kid and said whatsup, if youre involved i suggest you come forward now because this IS going to the police tomorrow and they DO find out where everything came from I've seen it happen many times. Internet is not a free play zone. He still claims he isn't involved, just found her. I just had to lay shit straight with this kid I think thats fair game now if he gets fucked for it idc gave him the chance to tell it.

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So i guess now is a bad time to ask for newdz?

and for now not messing with her FB leaving it the same way, watching if she loses any number of friends.

But after its all done I'm making her delete her facebok and start all over from scratch, only add people you KNOW dummy...

All the time is a bad time to ask that jackass!!

That sounds fishy...no pun intended lol..if her profile is private and there are pics of her off her Facebook page then it was def someone on her friends list that had access to them...what about the info on the Pof profile was it detailed like her location personal info etc?

No location and age are incorrect. Says she lives in Salem NH and is 23... Now that I'm looking at it tho they are all ones of her profile pictures, which are viewable to people who aren't friends....

if someone i was dating came to me and told me i "had to" change anything i was doing, they'd be single.

to me it sounds like youre getting all bent for no reason. it's like me posting pics of dawg's car and pretending it's mine. stupid, sure. i'd look like an ass when people found out. but would it really hurt dawg's feelings?
it's just some loser being stupid, and there's nothing you can do about that unless they're actually using the info to commit a crime.

We opened a plentyofffish account for my friend once using his profile pics. A little different of course because its guys screwing around with a newly single friend and the account was literally never logged into he just saw it in his email and thought it was a big laugh. Id be pissed if i were you too. If this dude continues to bither her thiugh you should take action.

yeah i dunno how id take this one. would i yell at her and make Her changer her whole prfile? no its not her fault! i would say honey could you Maybe Pretty Please go and purge some of your "friends" Please!? and then block this dude. in all seriousness its not they Stole her identity and racked up 1 fafillion mamillion dollars ion credit card bills or something. just some perv what evs!!

I agree... I wouldnt wanna put the blame on her right away unless you KNOW that she's doing dumb shit for sure. I mean honestly for people that really do go on a free local dating website and take it seriously, I def would believe my gf over some of those creepas.... Just saying....

Ps.... I've always wanted to use the phrase "just saying"

The easiest way to try and find out if it is her or not, check what email the acct. Is registered to. If its one of hers then you know for sure wtf is going on

naww you guys are interpreting it the wrong way. There is no blame to be put on my girlfriend. I'm not mad at her at all for any of this its just the obvious consequence of having 1500 friends you dont know. It definitely wasn't her that made the account lol.

That's not a good comparison. My girlfriend is very offended that something like that of her is out there, she don't want people on online dating sites fapping over her pics and neither do I... ??? I'm sure you would be a lil freaked out it if was you... and I dont tell her she HAS to, more of like a hey if you want this shit to not happen you HAVE to delete your friends theres no other way. Uness you want it to happen again fine by me lol.

I have quite a reason to be "bent" about it, not at her; at the fact that it was made and somebody did that. :klab:

The dumb part is she is surprised this happened after having 1500 facebook friends and only REALLY knowing about 500 of them??? HELLOOOOO kind of like one of those I told you so epic win moments.

I LOVE being the guy who says "I told you so", My friends do the stupidest shit and I'm like, "bad idea" something happens and I just give them the look. lol

Its the best

not trying to be a jerk, but id prob dump your chick. There are plenty of fish out there, one who wont lie.

I think he ment nudes of you!!!!!!
LOL!!!!

hahahahwe been together 3 years dammit! she didn't lie about anything read the post!!

That u know of lol

hahaha jackass

I know personally I'd be freaked out and pissed if I found a profile about me I didn't create..def alot different then pretending someones car is urs...that's a huge violation of privacy IMO..but ya that's why I don't add people I don't know on Facebook...there are mad creepers out there and especially on plenty of fish lol

Why not just sign up to this dating site and see if you could find her? Just should of gave here the whatever when you found out then do your own research.

Pretty simple instead of all this BS. If your under 25 there is a very good chance you won't be together forever. Thats the way it works.

Can't be said enough.

So did the cops tell you to fuck off yet?

I never went because the profile was deleted. I think she scared whoever made it because yesterday the profile disappeared and she lost two friends haha. I am friends with the police chief in my town and I told him he said to file a report and they take it down. Its been done before, but no use now...

and this thread isn't me looking for relationship advice. I know its hard to stay together esp at our age but I'd say were doing pretty good for us two.

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Except she is on dating sites :X

I applaud this thread

it failed

I KNOW NOTHING!!!!!
http://i859.photobucket.com/albums/a...ultz_small.jpg

Awesome current pop culture reference, I totally got it

lmaooolololololo

So i am just wondering isshe free this weekend?

thats weird, but I had that happen to me. Well not exactly like that, one of my friends made a profile with my facebook pics on adultfriendfinder and posted me as gay lol

Way too easy!

so what youre telling me is that you arent? man you never know now a days!

Baaahahahhaa assholes!!